Confidence, it’s something everyone really needs to have in their life. There are many types of confidence. You can have the rude type of confidence and the really nice confidence. In this article I will be talking about how to control each one of them and how each one works better than the other.
Did you know that waitress at restaurants have the highest confidence in a nice way? This is because they need to be nice to each one of their customers and don’t need to be shy to ask if they are ready to order. How would you feel if you went to a restaurant and you saw many employees just sitting there while you wait for someone to take your order? That’s one of the main reasons waitresses have the highest confidence because they come up to you and are friendly without being shy and ask you stuff like : What would you like to drink? Are you ready to order? Is the food okay? And more stuff like that. It also will benefit them because the client also might even give them a tip which can help the waitress’s expenses to be paid that’s obviously the good kind of confidence because everyone wins on that end. But then there is also a person that is rude and has a lot of confidence to say anything they want. This type of confidence can cause a lot of trouble such as: Fighting, murders, terrorism and more. Many people do need to know how to control their confidence here. I used to have a friend that would be like that and I was not scared of him at all. I was only a couple months older than him but I had taken him down in a small fight so he would stop messing with me. After a while he came and asked me why I am not so rude to people. I showed him everything I knew about how to keep calm but one of the main things I remember telling him was that “If your confidence hurts someone else, it will come and hurt you in the future.” By this he understood everything I mint and he took me very serious. He also did not have a dad so I would guess that was one of the reasons he was like that. I took him to my house and I taught him what would happen if he did this and that. He eventually did learn and learned some manners also, for now that I am aware of, he is making many friends and he is very nice and has not recently been in any fights.